I've been reading Dr. Joe Dispenza and practicing his meditations. I agree with what you stated in this article. Yesterday, I had a "debate" with my mom that is stirring up some old thoughts that help me realize where I stand with she and my dad. I need to deal with those thoughts over the next few days as I decided whether to go home for Christmas or not...in my mind is "do what is best for you" and I believe that is to go home because I need the company,, love, etc, and it really is up to me to set the intention for my visit and make it a great one.