I bring both and thus I attract who I am. I also attract on the level of my energy and worth. A lot of women don't want bus drivers because they don't provide the lifestyle they want. I don't need a man for my lifestyle but I do need a man who can fit in my lifestyle. He must have the social, intellectual, emotional, and financial capital to occupy my space and those spaces I occupy. He can't always be my "plus one." No man wants that and I don't want that for him. See more in my article

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